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  • Wait until you are ready. (page 14)
    • Choose your confidants wisely. (page 28)
    • Remember, be information appropriate. Give the RIGHT information at the RIGHT time to the RIGHT person. (page 31)
    • Remember you can STOP at any time. (page 31)
    • Part of making love is EMOTIONAL and part of being emotional is having FEELINGS. (page 35)
    • Another clue – BE GENTLE. (page 69)
    • TELL THE TRUTH about anything you know that could affect your lover’s health or well-being. (page 82)
    • The older person is ALWAYS the one who should be drawing the line with inappropriate sexual conduct with a younger child. (page 88)
    • You should NEVER push someone beyond her will. (page 92)
    • Don’t start TRADING OFF honesty for sex because the sex is great. It will come back to get you in the end. (page 95)
    • It’s a lot of work keeping things HIDDEN. (page 96)
    • EVERYONE is a virgin at one point. (page 101)
    • The REWARD comes not from losing your virginity at an early age but rather from making LOVE the first time with someone you CARE about. (page 101)
    • Once someone is PREGNANT, she is pregnant and you can’t argue or excuse yourself out of it. As has been said, “You can’t be a little bit pregnant.” (page 109)
    • The physical act of making love says something that goes BEYOND words. (page 112)
    • Don’t wait. Passion and responsible thinking are not the best of friends, so don’t assume that you can wait and make the RIGHT DECISION as things get more intense. (page 119)
    • The most important tool of all, to be a great lover, is always your heart. (page 149)